
My Journey As A Caregiver Began Long Before I Became A Nurse.

With love and intention,
Terrin
Founder, After VII · Registered Nurse · Caregiver
Meet Terrin
In 2008, while I was a sophomore in college, my mother suffered a stroke that changed our family's life forever. Following her stroke, she lived with right-sided weakness and limited mobility. As the oldest daughter and the only nurse in my immediate family, I felt a deep responsibility to help navigate her care, advocate for her well-being, and support her throughout her journey.
When medical decisions need to be made, I am often the first call. There have been moments when the demands of caregiving felt overwhelming. I remember receiving a call while my plane was landing that my father had been taken to the emergency department. Within forty-eight hours, I was on a flight to Ohio to be by his side.
Less than a month after his discharge, my mother experienced a medical emergency that once again required my immediate attention. Balancing a career dedicated to serving others with the responsibility of caring for loved ones has taught me firsthand about sacrifice, compassion fatigue, and the emotional weight many caregivers carry every day.
"If not you, then who?"
— Words from my therapist that changed everything
While those words reminded me of my strength and purpose, they also taught me something equally important. Caregivers must care for themselves too.
That lesson became the inspiration behind After VII. After VII is more than a wine brand. It is a reminder that those who spend their lives pouring into others deserve moments of restoration for themselves. It is an invitation to pause, breathe, reflect, and embrace self-care without guilt.
I do not encourage others to prioritize their well-being because it sounds good. I encourage it because I live this journey every day. As a nurse, caregiver, daughter, and founder, I have learned that we cannot continue to give from a place of depletion.
Through After VII, I hope to build a community that celebrates caregivers, healthcare professionals, and healers while creating lasting impact through support for nursing education and respite care initiatives.
Because caring for yourself is not selfish.
It is necessary.
The People Who Started It All
My journey as a caregiver began with the two people who gave me everything. Their resilience is the heartbeat behind After VII.

Mom
Survivor. Quiet strength. My first patient.

Dad
Steadfast protector. The one who showed up when it mattered most.
A Life Beautifully Lived
We celebrate the vibrant, joyful spirit of Terrin's mother Beverly, a woman whose smile lit up every room, whose love knew no bounds, and whose legacy of warmth lives on in everyone she touched.
"You showed up for everyone. Now we show up for you."
Cherished Memories
Light a Candle
Light a candle in her memory
Each candle is a moment of love, a prayer, a remembrance.
3candles have been lit
What We Believe
Care is not a one-way street
Those who pour into others deserve to have someone pouring into them. After VII exists to be that reminder.
Rest is not a reward
You do not have to earn the right to rest. Peace is not a luxury — it is a necessity, especially for those who carry the weight of others.
Community heals
When caregivers connect with other caregivers, something powerful happens. The loneliness lifts. The weight gets shared. You remember you are not alone.
You Cannot Pour From An Empty Cup.
After VII is building a community of caregivers who see each other, support each other, and remind each other that their care matters too.
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